Joining the United Church Women and describing its goals
Dabbs discusses her decision to join the United Church Women sometime during the 1940s. Initially uninterested in joining any organizations during those years, Dabbs explains that she appreciated the aims of the United Church Women towards interdenominational work amongst Christian women. She briefly describes the goals of the organization, her role within it, and its reputation for liberal politics. In addition, she discusses her feelings of guilt for taking time away from her family and how she coped with that.
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Oral History Interview with Edith Mitchell Dabbs, October 4, 1975. Interview G-0022. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- ELIZABETH JACOWAY BURNS:
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Were you real active in the church?
- EDITH MITCHELL DABBS:
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Yes. Our church is small and it uses everybody and everybody, no matter
how you behave, if you have wild ideas, you are still needed to carry a
load. Brick Church—It was back in about '49, I
guess, that I first heard about United Churchwomen. I was invited to
become a national board member. That is a curious way to start.
[Laughter]
There were no United Churchwomen members
in Sumter County except one, I believe. That was just sort of freelance,
there was no organization in the state. There had been several attempts,
but they had never really gotten something going, in either state or
local organization. There were a few scattered women in the state who
were very much interested in it and there had been a couple of starts.
It happened that the executive director of the national United Church
Women was a Sumter woman. She had been living in New York for a long
time, but she was a Sumter woman, Dorothy Shaw McLeod, a Presbyterian
minister's wife. She was an absolutely charming and very
capable woman. I told you that she put the glamour in church work for
thousands of church women.
[Laughter]
I got to know her and she wanted me to get involved in the work
and so she asked me if I would consider, if I were nominated for a place
on the national board, if I would consider it. So, I talked to James
about it and we had decided that I didn't have to belong to
anything in Sumter. I don't like clubs, I'm not a
joiner. He said that he didn't care, he said that the only
thing that he knew of in Sumter that he thought it might be nice for me
to belong to up to that time had been the AAUW. Then I found out that
the AAUW in Sumter had been infiltrated by one or two persons who were
determined to control it from the inside and to keep it from doing
anything liberal. So, I thought "To heck with it, life is too
short for that." We agreed that I would let it alone. So, I
didn't belong to anything in Sumter. I never have identified
with Sumter particularly… Then, this opportunity came along
and he liked the idea. So, I thought, "Well, if you like it
enough and think that it is worthwhile, I'll try it and
see." I did go to the national convention, the first time that
I had ever left home since I had the children and I thought that I would
die before I got back here. They got along all right,
but I nearly passed out.
[Laughter]
That was the beginning of about a five-year stretch with the
United Church Women. I served as a Board Member and I had to have
something to do as a Board Member and I was put on the public relations
committee. At that time, we were just starting, even nationally. The
whole national committee was just about sixteen members to cover the
whole fifty states, you know. We had a radio and a t.v. committee and I
worked on both of them and I worked on the Protestant Radio Commission
… was that it? There were a million
All that kind of thing. I went to workshops down at Emory University,
summer sessions in public relations, got particular training in
audio-visual, to teach these people to teach with audio-visuals and that
sort of thing, and particularly related to religious work, but not just
restricted to that. And then there was a marvelous National
Communications Institute in New York that lasted for a full week with
emphasis on radio for a couple of days, on t.v., on the press, all kinds
of things and we met with just the very best instructors and the very
best workshop situations that you could possibly get in radio and t.v.
And movies. Everyday and every night was filled with some sort of new
learning experiences that were really very exciting and most unusual.
The press workshops were sponsored by the New York
Times. They gave us a tea, I remember, one afternoon for the whole
group and I met some exciting people there. Then, various magazine
editors were there. I remember in broadcasting, Pauline Frederick. Do
you remember her? Her name hasn't been gone so long from the
front. She was broadcasting for the United Nations. She was at some of
our lunchons and some of the workshops.
- ELIZABETH JACOWAY BURNS:
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And United Church Women was a new organization.
- EDITH MITCHELL DABBS:
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It was a new organization and they were training their
nucleus of public relations people that way. It was a
communications workshop.
- ELIZABETH JACOWAY BURNS:
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And what was the function of the group? What were you all trying to
accomplish?
- EDITH MITCHELL DABBS:
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We were trying to learn how to handle public relations, to spread the
idea of cooperation among the denominations in the women's
work. The United Church Women is the united effort of the women of many
churches. It included thirty-odd different denominations.
- ELIZABETH JACOWAY BURNS:
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All Protestant?
- EDITH MITCHELL DABBS:
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All Protestant, yes. They are just beginning, apparently now, to work
somewhat with Catholic and Jewish women and they have always had
affiliations with them and worked on local projects within specific
towns together, but officially and nationwide, they are Protestant. It
is a united Protestant effort. That was one of the bigest learning
experiences that I ever had. It was terribly hard because by that time,
we had our whole family and they were all big enough to need me here all
the time and to miss having me here. Miles away, I would worry because
Dottie had braids down almost long enough to sit on, just a little girl
in the second grade or first grade … no, she must have been
in the second grade, I guess, and Dick was not quite school age. I would
go away for several days; it was just almost unbearable and I would
promise myself that I would never do it again and that I would get out
of that thing right then. I would worry about how her braids would get
done and I would arrange for some neighbor to do it and that sort of
thing. Oh, that was a real sacrifice for me, because I suffered through
that. But, it was a great experience and I suppose that I learned enough
that maybe it paid off in other ways. I don't know, I hope
so. The children lived through it real nicely.
- ELIZABETH JACOWAY BURNS:
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Now, am I correct in understanding that the United Church Women was a
liberal organization?
- EDITH MITCHELL DABBS:
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Oh, yes. Very. So, that put me as much beyond the pale on my own as James
was already. I not only reflected his rascality, but I had some of my
own. We were very marked there for awhile.