Importance of faith in Mary Thompson's life
In her family, religion and faith were integral parts of childrearing. Mary Thompson talks about how things have changed since she was a child and then describes the important role faith continues to play in her life.
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Oral History Interview with Carl and Mary Thompson, July 19, 1979. Interview H-0182. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- JIM LELOUDIS:
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Did the family get together to read the Bible?
- MARY THOMPSON:
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Not all together all the time, but my mother would get some of us around.
Some of them was always out playing, but she taught us thataway. My
daddy was a good man, but he left everything, even the teaching, up to
Mama, and he done the work. But they taught us what the Bible said we
should do. What's taught a child stands in their mind the
rest of their life. That's one thing I don't think
ever leaves you; it'll keep coming back. And I believe your
conscience will bring it back to you if you start doing things you
oughtn't to, because I can't say that
I've been an angel all my life. And I don't think
anybody else has. But I never have been one. But
still, if I was tempted to do things wrong, my teaching's
what my conscience that I didn't do it. And I believe in
teaching a child the way it should go. But then they taught more in the
homes than they do now. And another thing, we were taught in the
schools. We had our devotion; we was taught the Bible; we had to learn
Bible verses in the school. We always had prayer and devotion every
morning before we started, and we were taught what was right and wrong
in school. They're not taught that now. When they took the
Bible out of schools, they …
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- JIM LELOUDIS:
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So if the parents didn't do it, you say the schools then would
kind of pick up on it.
- MARY THOMPSON:
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That's right. The schools taught it. We had the teaching of
the Bible and prayer and all in school, and now they have dope and
cursing and sex and everything else now in school. That's the
difference in the schools. That's what's ruining
so many children, too, today. Schools back on, if they can't
get it in their homes, at least they could get it in school if it was in
schools. They'd get a little bit of it. At least
they'd know there was a God, and they'd know that
there's a Bible, and they'd know what's
right and wrong, if they were taught it in school. Now I'm
not saying you should teach denomination in school; I'm not
part of that. But the Bible should be taught in school, and you should
have prayer in school, and teaching right and wrong in school. And there
wouldn't be so much meanness if there was. My
daughter's a study hall teacher at Northwestern High School
in Rock Hill, and she says that it's awful, what's
in school today. She tells me more than anything else.
Of course, I hear other teachers talking about it, too, but
she tells me the way they do in school. She says it's just
surprising the way the children is doing in school today. And
that's what makes our country, the children, so what are they
going to be in the future if that's what they're
going to have in schools? You think we're old-timey; we are.
And we might be boresome, but we believe in being clean and believe in
the Bible. And I believe if the schools would go back to prayer in
school, it'd be better, too. I hope Senator Helms gets his
bill through. Might be it's gone so far, it might…
I don't know, though; the Lord can do wonders. So it might be
that He can still turn the world around and turn the morale around in
schools. Of course, it takes a little bit of parents to do things, too,
but where so many of them don't have the parents to do, they
could at least help some of them in school.
- JIM LELOUDIS:
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As you said, the church was real important in your life.
- MARY THOMPSON:
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Sure. We went to the Baptist church. There was a Methodist church there
on the village, too, and so once in a while we'd play hooky
and go to the Methodist because some of our friends would be going
there. We really wasn't Methodist, but lots of our friends
was Methodist. I'm one of these that believes that the
denomination don't take you to Heaven. But now my parents was
hard-shell Baptists. They believed the Baptists was all there was.(
) [Laughter] But
I'm not thataway. I believe in the Bible and the Lord. The
denominations helps because we've got to have something to
follow. But our church was important in our lives. In fact, everything
we did, all our entertainment and all, had to go through the church or
the school. We wasn't allowed to go out and be rough like
some.
- JIM LELOUDIS:
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How do you feel personally that God's been active in your
life?
- MARY THOMPSON:
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He's been wonderful to me. If I do things wrong, I know
that I can always come back to him.
It's hard to say, but I really think that everything I got
come from the Lord. I give Him credit for it, anyway. Our strength,
we're able to do. I was in an awful fix with heart trouble,
and I've got now to where I can go around and walk, and doing
wonderful. I think the Lord is all we are, in my life.