Yes. At the time I was in high school, everything was real, I mean, not
perfect, but okay. We can support ourselves right now. Back then we were
living off like Lutheran Family Services. Now, when I was high school,
that was longߞ already long ago before weߞ you know how Lutheran Family
Services help us, give certain amount of money to buy food and stuff? We
were long away from that and in high school, my familyߞ when I was in
high school my family, dad was working. I think mom was working for a
couple years. When she had me in her stomach or whatever, she fell down
and broke her ankle and stuff. Right now she's still going to the
hospital. I take her every three months or so, go see the doctor about
her knee and stuff. Her knee is very bad, and they won't let her work.
But still she go and try and find another job, because in order to
support the family, we have to have two incomes. Sister is just working
part time to buy clothes and stuff for her and for us. And she worked
there for a couple years, and the company closed down. She try to
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her pace was so slow because of her leg and stuff. I think they not fire
her but just giving her a hint. So I just told her, I guess they're just
saying that you're moving too slow and you're not getting the job done.
And she just stopߞ worked a couple months. That's when my sister was
thinking about working full time. I guess at that time, Dad was still
working two jobs. But this time he found a better job, not a janitor,
work at Gilford Mills, and plus he work in a restaurant. He was making
pretty good money, but long hour. I hardly see my dad. I remember me and
my brother used to be likeߞ he would get off like 11:00, 11:30 he'll get
home after his second job. And we'll wait for him, you know, just to see
him before we go to school and stuff, because I mean, he worked from day
until night. He been doing that for almost seven years, support him.
That's why I would never forget that, and I will try to be like him, you
know, I mean, working hard. I mean, working hard is good, but there's
other wayߞyou don't have to work hard to get money and stuff. It's like
go to school and get a good job. I mean, but working hard does pay
bills. He showed it to me that working hard pay bills. He did prove to
me. He pay off the house, the cars and stuff. He doesn't speak English,
not even a bitߞ probably he know how to say yes or no. I'm very proud of
my dad a lot. And he work at Gilford Mills and stuff. I work in Gilford
Mills too, but different plant, which I don't work there no more. But
it's a lot of computers, a lot of thing you have to do with computer and
a lot of machine control, manual control that in English. I just
couldn't believe he been there for ten years now, and supervisor love
him and all that. I just couldn't believe how he understand the computer
and stuff, which he never go to school. I'm very proud of him. I just
couldn't do it. I work at Gilford Mills, and I'm a lead person, like a
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people, which is, again, this might sound racial, but Americans who work
there, who do not know how to start a computer up or reset the computer.
But I never see my dad done it, but if he can stay there for ten years,
he must know something or else he'll be gone. They couldn't even like
pull a computer or you know, bring down orders, or like read tape
measure, you know, and all that. And that will bring me back to my dad,
how could he do it? I worry about him because the machine is so big. And
in my plant, there was two or three people die in the plant. I just
worry about my father, because every day I tell him, don't work so hard,
or don't work too much overtime. The way I see it, I seen people cut
their hand off and stuff, and it's justߞI'm at Gilford Mill and he work
at Gilford Mill too. We do the same stuff. I'm just so afraid for him,
and I'm very proud of him. He been there for over ten years now, and
hasn't no problem. Has good attendance and everything, and took care of
me until I have my own family, even take care of my wedding for me. You
know gave some to me to startߞ me and my wife to start our life with. I
think because where I'm at is all because of my mom and dad. They help
me out and they teach me and all that.