Desegregation damages the black community
Desegregation was a disaster for the African American community, Tapia believes. It changed the law but not attitudes, nurtured ignorance and self-hatred among African Americans, and forced upon them white standards of success. Tapia sees its ill effects in her sister, who is struggling after years of being ignored, and in the crowds of black men gathering on street corners.
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Oral History Interview with Brenda Tapia, February 2, 2001. Interview K-0476. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- JONETTA JOHNSON:
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What in general do you think desegregation accomplished?
- REVEREND BRENDA TAPIA:
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You know, I know that people who are older thought that that was the
answer, that that was one way we might get a fair
shot at experiencing the American Dream and getting our piece of the
pie. If you want my honest opinion, I think that integration was one of
the worst things that could've been done to us. I think it
would've been more loving, more compassionate, if they just
all, injected us all with advanced AIDS, and let us die, because I see
more negative repercussions for us than I feel positive strides. First
of all, the playing field has never been level. When the Civil Rights
Movement changed the laws, but it did nothing, and laws
aren't supposed to, but nothing was done to change attitudes
and hearts, so we're really not that much better off than
when we were before the Civil Rights Movement. A few Blacks were able to
advance, but even those few that were able to get through the door and
advance, there was a glass ceiling for them. The majority, the masses of
our people, nothing's changed for them. It's just
like the Depression, I used to hear my grandparents talking about not
knowing when the Depression was because they were so poor already:
"The Depression, what was that?" You know, it was just
another day for them, but for people who had something it was a bad
time. And, for what the masses of Black people have gained through
segregation, umm, it just, I don't think it was worth it. I
see our students being totally out of touch now with their
own history and culture, I see the self-hatred that
they've developed and don't even realize. It
bothers me now that I hear so many Black students who consider being
intelligent and smart White, not thinking about what that implies:
"If that's White, then what is Black?"
Because they're making a statement about what it means to be
Black, if when you're using appropriate English, if when
you're using standard English, if you're really
… striving academically, for peers to consider that
you're acting White. No, you're acting like an
intelligent human being. But things like that just bother me. I think
we've really lost more than we've gained.
- JONETTA JOHNSON:
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And you mentioned you had a sister who also went to North Meck?
- REVEREND BRENDA TAPIA:
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I have two sisters, one is five-and-a-half years younger than me, and one
is eleven. The one five-and-a-half went to North, in fact she started
integrating schools, she was in the second grade the year I was going to
the eleventh. So she has pretty much been in all White schools all of
her life. Totally out of touch with her culture and her heritage, and
never had the opportunity. I see a lot of the problems she's
having now as having now as an adult as a
reflection of that because she has no self-esteem. In fact, she has a
physical ailment now that in medical circles is considered a
victim's disease, people who feel victimized. And not only
did she go to school with predominantly White schools and colleges, but
then she went into a very rich White environment to teach school, and
could never understand why suggestions she made were never accepted, I
mean she went through this.
And, like I see some Black students here, things happen to them and they
take it personally. Because if you don't have someone
correcting your viewpoint and giving you the real perspective of
what's going on, it's very easy to think that:
"It's me," when: "No
it's not you." It's not always you; many
times it's the system or environment that you're
in. So I think that I can definitely see where desegregation really
affected her. She didn't get to experience ten years of being
- feeling loved, supported, being cared about, being touched, being
seen. She spent most of her life invisible, and I see her in many ways
going overboard, to quote: "Be seen." I
don't have that need as greatly as she has it. My younger
sister didn't even get to finish school here because of what
was going on. The middle school here in Huntersville, Alexander, before
you go to North, the problems that they were having
there between the races were so bad, and this is like - right now,
it's very calming to have police. In fact schools have their
own security system and their officers often wear uniforms. When I was
coming along, it was not the case. So it was very unusual to have police
at your school every day. And so by the time she was ready to go to
Alexander, police were almost a permanent picture there.
I used to call, well not really until I came back here to start Love of
Learning, I realized, Alexander was what I call a gatekeeper school.
Until about the fourth year of Love of Learning, I didn't
think Alexander offered anything in terms of math, other than basic,
basic, advanced basic, or general basic - basic, and advanced basic
math, because that's all I saw on Black kids report cards. It
wasn't until I was - the chaplain was complaining about the
difficulty his daughter was having with geometry, and I said:
"I thought your daughter was in middle school?" And he
said: "She is." I said. "You mean they have
Geometry at Alexander?" He said: "Yeah,
they've always had Geometry at Alexander." I said:
"Oh, I thought they just had basic, and advanced basic math and
pre-basic math." Because that was all I was seeing on Black
kids report cards, and then I realized that's what they were
being offered. And when you follow that type of math schedule in junior
high school, there's no way
you're going to be ready for college by the twelfth grade.
So rather than saying to you what my guidance counselor at North, said to
me when I walked in to ask him for a catalog to Howard, he said:
"Howard University, I never heard of it. But besides, you
people don't need to go to college anyway. Now I got a friend
down at Howard and Johnson's in Charlotte, I can get you a
job in housekeeping. You folks don't need to waste your time
going to college." So rather than having to be ignorant enough
to say that, you can subtly do that by controlling the track the child
is in and what courses they take. Which is what they do in Alexander,
besides the verbal harassment, which if you were to take a drive now
around Davidson and Cornelius, you would see a lot of Black men my age
group and below, who are just standing on the corner. They're
just alcoholics going nowhere. I can't completely blame their
situation on Alexander, but that's sure where it started.
Many of those men never finished high school. They didn't
have sense enough to realize the game that was being run on them, and
they embraced being put out of school. If our schools had been left
open, it's quite likely that instead of those men standing on
the corner, they'd have businesses on the corner.
It's important to me that we try to supplement what
[de]segregation has done, and that's why the emphasis of the
program in one ear, is one Black History and culture. And our mission
statement makes it clear: I seek to help students realize who they are
and whose they are, enabling them and empowering them to become
successful and productive world citizens. If you don't know
who you are and where you're going, and where you come from,
it's very difficult for you to know how to get where
you're going to go anywhere. It's very interesting
to me that now I graduated in 1967, not much has changed in Charlotte
Mecklenburg in those years. The racism is even more blatant now. I have
students every year, coming in at the beginning of the year - I work
with secondary students, grades nine through twelve. And I get stories
about how they walk into class on the first day and their teacher will
say stuff like: "Yes, may I help you?" And the student
will look at their card and go: "Advanced Chemistry, 06 Preyer,
umm, no thank-you," and the teacher will say: "Let me
see your class card." And then the student will notice at the
end of the class, other students coming in are not treated that way,
student looks around: "Oh, I'm the only Black person
here, so evidently they thought I was in the wrong place because it was
an Advanced Chemistry class." Or students
raising their hands: "Yes what do you want, you're
asking another question?" Another child who is not of that
race: "Yes Mary, Tommy, do you have another question?"
You know, that's blatant, so it's just a shame it
hasn't changed.