White parents worry about integration
Ray believes that humor was an important tactic used to ease white parents' fears about integration. She believes that children are better able to deal with social transitions.
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Oral History Interview with Maggie W. Ray, November 9, 2000. Interview K-0825. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- PAMELA GRUNDY:
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Well, I guess when you say that he knew, this guidance counselor knew
how to ease white parents into West Charlotte, what needed to be done to
keep these white parents happy?
- MAGGIE W. RAY:
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Well, I think humor was a great thing, and someone from over there
saying, "It's going to be fine. Your fears are
unfounded; it's a safe neighborhood, I live there."
Joe Champion could say, "And I'm safe and your
children are going to be all right." Not everybody believed
that, and of course, it wasn't totally true in any high
school at that time. I mean, you just wouldn't stay by
yourself at a high school, or anywhere in town. So some of the fears
were justified, but he helped and I guess that's the main
thing. I'm trying to remember if they had tours and stuff,
seems like that did all sorts of things to make the transition easy.
- PAMELA GRUNDY:
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You mean in some ways it might have been more difficult for the parents
than the students to deal with?
- MAGGIE W. RAY:
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Good question. The years when black and white students were in the
classroom together for the first time I was raising little babies, and
so I wasn't on site then. When I came back in the mid
'70s that pretty much was over, so I can't really
address that question. I do think that with the little children,
it's always much easier, they're unselfconscious.
A friend of mine told me that her little five-year-old got off the bus
and she said, "How was your first day at school?" And
she says, "Oh, I sat next to a brown girl." So this is
the innocence, and in junior high anybody that's different
has a problem. Somebody with a zit [Laughter]
has a problem, so it gets harder, I think.