Continuing taboo on interracial romance
There was no interracial dating at Indian Springs High School, the predominantly white boarding school Threatt attended for four years. There, and at Princeton at the end of the 1960s, African Americans risked ostracization by other African Americans for dating white people. Threatt muses briefly on the slow progress of acceptance of interracial relationships and the difficulties that the children of such relationships face.
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Oral History Interview with Glennon Threatt, June 16, 2005. Interview U-0023. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- KIMBERLY HILL:
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We like to ask about interracial dating, did you see any going on at
Indian Springs?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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Oh hell no
[Laughter]
No! No man, if that would have happened at Indian Springs, you
would have gotten a beat down. They wouldn't have-
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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Really?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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No, no that wasn't accepted. Also, you got to remember at the end of the
1960's it wouldn't have been so much the white folks, but other black
people would have ostracized you for dating outside your race. When I
went to Princeton it was at the end of the revolutionary movement, the
black students were still wearing army fatigues and carrying Chairman
Mao's quotations around. It was very, very different. We were at sort of
the tail end of the revolutionary movement because of the takeovers at
Columbia and other schools like that, so interracial dating was not
acceptable. You started to see it more my senior year at Princeton and
now it's very common, not just at Princeton or Indian Springs, but in
public schools as well. It did not go on, it just wasn't accepted.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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On either side?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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No, no, no. If a black guy had gone out with a white girl and another
black girl found out about it, they would have never dated you.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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Did you have any sense that the administration at either school was
putting some kind of racial-
- GLENNON THREATT:
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None at all, we weren't dating when we were at Elyton because I was only
thirteen when I got out of there, but at Indian Springs there was no
pressure from the administration there. It was a very, very liberal
environment, but it just wasn't something that was socially acceptable.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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Even on things besides dating like maybe befriending other white
students?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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Oh sure, I went home to visit some of the kids that went to school with
me. I was friends with them and still am to this day. As to whether or
not I would have dated their sister? No. I had one bad experience
involving interracial dating in Indian Springs. We had gone to
Martinsville, Virginia to sing in a high school there, it was an all
white school. I met some girls there that were in their choir. They put
us up, when we would travel to these different places the communities
where we would sing, either the churches or the schools would try and
get parents to house us so that we wouldn't have to get hotels. We
stayed with some family there in Martinsville, Virginia and I met a girl
from that high school who was in their choir who was white, and we
talked and stuff. Then their choir came down here the next year to sing
in Birmingham and we hosted them at Indian Springs. We started talking,
I mean we couldn't really date because we were living in different
states. I remember one of the guys in the choir telling me
that-and I had considered him to be my friend until this
incident, he thought that it was a bad idea for me to be talking to her.
I was really, really surprised by that because I thought he was cool and
I did not expect him to have that reaction.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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Just because you talked to her too often?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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Well, he saw me with her when they came to our campus. She was a very
attractive girl, and he remembered her.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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So after that you didn't talk much with him anymore?
- GLENNON THREATT:
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No, no, sure didn't. Haven't really spoken to him since that happened
and that's been thirty five years ago now. Yeah, some things don't
change. The acceptability of . . . I'll give you an interesting
statistic. The last statistic that I saw on interracial marriages in the
United States, ninety percent of them the man was black. So when it
becomes really accepted, then it will be relatively even. It won't be
black men dating white women, it'll be black people dating white people
and marrying white people.
- KIMBERLY HILL:
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You know, we're not there yet.
- GLENNON THREATT:
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No we're not there yet. There are certain cities in the United States
that are more favorable for interracial relationships and people know
that and they move there. I have a couple of friends that are an
interracial couple, they moved to Seattle from Texas because they are
more accepted there. Denver is a city where interracial couples are
accepted, so a lot of people that date or married interracially move
there for that reason. The thing about interracial dating is that when
you have kids, your kids really catch it. I have a real good friend here
in Birmingham, who is a woman who is the product of an interracial
marriage. She caught hell growing up, because she grew up in South
Central Los Angeles and her mother was the only white person that she
said lived in Compton. She went to three or four high schools because of
the problems that she had being accepted. She was neither white nor
black, and I can imagine what it must have been like growing up in South
Central Los Angeles in the late 1960's and early 1970's, with a black
daddy and blue eyes.