I went to one family member's it wasn't my, the house that I grew up in
when I was very little. We lived in New York, and some family on my
mother's side had passed away, but they lived in like upper parts of New
York, and it was like a cousin of my mothers. So we went and my mother,
I remember her telling me and my three younger sisters because I'm the
oldest of four. We're going to Aunt Sadie's because her brother passed
away, and so we're going to the funeral. So I was just thinking that the
funeral was going to be in a church, and it wouldn't have ever thought
that it was going to be the body or the wake was going to be in the
house. Sure enough it was. That was a very scary moment for me. Then a
few years later after that event when for Easter my mom we're going to
Aunt Sadie's, and we're going to visit. I remembered the dead relative
being in the home, so I immediately did not want to go because I thought
about that. That was my experience, one of my first experiences of
funerals. So now a days they have, they still do have wakes at home in
homes, but for the most part you go to a funeral parlor, and so I'm kind
of glad about that because—