Ruffin, Thomas, Jr.
Chapel Hill N. Carolina
I suppose you did not receive the letter, which I addressed to you, when in
Raleigh,
by my receiving no answer to it, & I expect that you are vexed that I
did not write to you as you requested, which I did just before you left
Raleigh for home. I
now wish to lay open to you my plan of future life, &
dear father do not blame me for it, for it shall be
my constant endeavour myself as is suitable to the character, which you have
gained by hard labour & toil, for your family. & besides
should you think it wrong after hearing my reason, charge it to my head
& not to my heart.—To look forward, when you shall be
no more & to think that the name of Ruffin
which is one of the first on the pages of
North Carolina's
history, shall sink & that my brothers & sisters shall
merely be respected. It is then that I form resolutions to conduct my life in
such a way as not only to be respectable, but such a profitable one, that, after
your death,
Mama, at least, shall continue in the same manner of life,
as she did when you were here. This is my only reason for making the following
request, Viz, that you would permit me to quit college & go to sea,
& do not think that I have gone over
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all these things, which I have related merely to deceive you, or that it is a
mere fancy,
boyish & childish for I do
assure you that I have thought over it often,
in
tears & it is my opinion that I cannot succeed at the
Bar or in the practice of medicine, & I
disdain to become a
pety politician, who can alter
his sentiments, according to popular caprice, & should you permit me to
go to sea, I would make it my profession & endeavour to make it an
honorable one. I would also endeavour to become a scholar of some renown,
& if
God should
permit me to reach an old age, I will with draw myself from my profession
& sit myself down as an instructer of the youth of my country. "The
most honorable occupation of all occupations" It is for these reasons, that I
make the request & if you should think differently, I will lay them
aside, to be thought of no more, only
father do not
blame me for it. I confess that I tried to deceive you once, but forgive me for
it & I will pray to our heavenly father, that he will forgive me
& also to direct me in the path of rectitude & virtue
hereafter. I have made the upmost endeavours, this session, to correct all my
vices, & I feel as if a heavy burden was take off of me, after making
this session & I feel assured that it will be received with joy by you
& my
dear Mama
.
I hope that you will write to
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immediately
& give me your opinion on it, & Dr.
Jones
came
very near writing, to you, himself, once this session to persuade you to let me
go, on account of my health but I told him, that he had better wait a little
while & since that my health has improved & I enjoy better
health, than I ever did in my life, & I wish you would write me word,
what I am to do about his account, both for last & this sessions.
You will receive my report before long & I hope that will be a better
one than before, on languages, but it is almost impossible for me to get better
on mathematics, for I am by nature no mathematician. I suppose that you know that the two
Polks of
Tenesee.