Letter from
Thomas Ruffin, Jr. to his father,
Thomas Ruffin
, April 1841
Ruffin, Thomas, Jr.
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Chapel
Hill
April
Dear Father
I now commence a letter to you, in no pleasent mode, for I have been wronged,
yes, and treatead meanly by D
r
Mitchel
for he gave a party to night and asked all his borders except
one, by the name of
Bryan and
myself and said he had no room for us, it could not be because we were Fres, for
he asked the Fresh, and
Papa
I insist on quiting his house as a boarder, I suppose he
thought we were not good enough for to his company to see, and that we were
children and would not notice it, but he was mistaken, and I hope to receive
your permission to quit his house and never to enter it a gain, for
Pa
, just think how
you would feel if you were slighted so. and this is not the first time that I
have whished to quit there, for if you could hear his family talk about the
other faculty
s family you would want to quit there too, and they are
continually making fun of Mr
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Mr
Owen (a Tutor) calling him Judge
Owen (a name the boys gave him) and talking about how poor, ugly, and how little
sense he had, tho this is none of my buisiness, yet it is not such a palace as
you whish me to board at, or as I want to board at, And I have heard them talk
about Mr
Green
, which first prejudiced me against him, and of all the
rest of the faculty.
You may wonder that I never mentioned this before, But I knew that you desired me
to stay there and that it would increase your trouble, therefore I would have
stayed there if I had nothing to eat But bread & water, But
Papa
I can not
stay there willingly. And the worst of all, he made me lose my supper to night,
for if I had gone, he would say that I was fishing for an invitation and
Papa
I would die
before I would do that or have it said that I did it.
All the other boys went to supper and I beleive that some of them are none to
good to fish for an invitation.
I will say nothing about leaving there untill I hear from you, But
Pa
, consult your
own feelings were you in my situation, and I know you
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you will consent to my leaving there, and
he says that he wants no one to stay there unless they are willing, and I
am not willing, therefore
Pa
, you ought to let me quit.
But
Papa
if you
think I am wrong I will stay and do not let
Ma, see this letter, if you please, that is, if you think I
am wrong.
Tell Jane that I received her
letter this evening and that I will answer it soon.
I have made a mistake in the manner of writing my letter, But I hope you will
pardon it as you see I know better.
Give My very best love to all at home and if you please forgive me if I am in the
wrong as to leaving D
r Mitchels
house, for it was a long
time before I could begin to write it, for I feared it would cause you some
uneasyness.
I remain your affectionate Son
Thomas
Ruffin
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