Letter from
Thomas Ruffin, Jr. to his father
Thomas Ruffin
, May 11, 1841
Ruffin, Thomas, Jr.
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Chapel
Hill
May 11th 1841
My Dear Father
I must beg your pardon for my long delay in giving an answer to your letter.
which I received in the due course of the mail. But I have a good excuse for it,
Namely, you stated in your letter your intention of going to
Rockingham & I did not know
when you would return, And as Sister
Alice told me in her letter received yesterday that you had
returned, I immediately sat down to give you the satisfaction, which I know you
will experience, when you learn, that I am perfectly willing to remain a boarder
at D
r
Mitchels.
That D
r
M.
had no intention of hurting my feelings I am certain, for he has never ceased to
show that kindness to me yet, for which I ought to be & will be, under
obligations to him as long as I live, And I assure you I ask his pardon, for
accuseing him when inocent, of an action unbecoming to a
gentleman, And I have found out, since my letter, that he did not ask
all of the boarders, but only the seniors, of which I was ignorant for I was
told by one of the young men that it was the case. Therefore I hope you will
forgive me for the anxiety I have given you, concerning an action
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which I regret ever happened, but for one thing
i.e. it gave you occasion to write to me, a thing so seldom done, that I am
willing to undergo any thing almost for it,
I suppose you saw John Brodn.
at his Fathers, for he left
here more than a week ago & I have a boy by the name of Caldwell for my room mate,
Mr
Green
has been absent now, for more than a week, on a visit to
Wilmington at which place the convention meets. He will deliver a eulogy
on
Gen. Harrison next friday,
on account of that we will have that day given to us as a holiday.
We have only seven more days to study, for the examination commences week after
next and we have the last day given to us also according to custom.
I am sorry to tell you that my knee is swolen again, but alas! it is too true. It
is more so than ever and gives me more pain, & I can scarcely walk up
the stair steps, & I begin to fear it is not the rheumatism, for if you
recolect, I fell & hurt it the last session, & it has been
sweled ever since that more or less,
You will please to tell Sister
Alice, that I received her letter and the book she sent also, but that
the one belonging to the
Philanthropic society did not come to
me, & she did not send me the shos of which I told her I was in need
&
Papa
I whish you would send me a pair of those I left at home, for I have on a pair
of my
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roommates, which I know is against your
rules, but I was compeled for I wore mine untill they had no soles in them.
Tell Ma. that I have no vest
for commencement & that she promised to make me one las vacation
& that I am very much obliged to her for the shirts she is haveing made
for me.
Sister Alice mentioned that
the boys would stay untill the vacation. What will you do with them after that.
Give my very best respects for I can not say love now a days to Miss
Mildred Cameron but my love to
all the rest. & tell Cousin [unrecovered] that she is
very much envied here, for
Papa
showed the letter I wrote to [unrecovered] D
r
Mitchel
when he was there & he came home & told all
the contents to the young ladies. & as a matter of course, they are
angry with her.
I promise you to carry home the book, which I will use next session & I
will make use of them in the vacation.
I am glad to hear that Mr
Brodnax & family intend coming to see John graduate & I hope you, Mama, & Sister Alice will accompany them but
tell Mama that I will comply
with her whish as to the girls.
There is nothing else to tell you now, But I will write before long
I remain your affectionate Son
Thomas
Ruffin
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