Baker describes her parents' courtship
Baker describes her parents' courtship.
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Oral History Interview with Ella Baker, April 19, 1977. Interview G-0008. Southern Oral History Program Collection (#4007) in the Southern Oral History Program Collection, Southern Historical Collection, Wilson Library, University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill.
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- SUE THRASHER:
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Do you have any idea how long your father had been there before your
mother came up and joined him? Did he come back to Warrenton and they
married there and then went back to Norfolk?
- ELLA BAKER:
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Actually, the gentleman comes to the lady's home. [Laughter] I really don't know
what their ages were at the time of marriage, but he had gone to Norfolk
and had "become settled and acclimated," and he came
back to continue his wooing of her. And there's a very
interesting part of the story, especially when you know my
mother's temperament. It is said that he came to pay court
and had ridden on horseback from the county seat, which was Warrenton,
to this little section called Flums across the river. And it was the
winter season, and when he arrived he had been frozen in the stirrups
and had to knock his heels loose from the stirrups.
- SUE THRASHER:
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Was your mother impressed by that? [Laughter]
- ELLA BAKER:
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My mother was a very…. To let her tell the story, she
wasn't about to be wooed to the extent of swooning, by no
means. [Laughter] But she came down the
steps—they had a two-story house by that time—and
saw him bleeding. They said that she fainted; I'm not sure.
[Laughter]